Dating web sites are fair game for sharp practice guys & females!

Dating web sites are fair game for sharp practice guys & females!

Date on the internet reaches into almost everyone's subsist whether you keep the faith met someone online personally, or you know public figure that has.

In Australia alone, data compiled from the single-woman website has found that 40% of Australian singles keep the faith personally used an online dating service. The down under internet dating industry can lay exhibit to with the exception of than 100,000 weddings in the past 12 months which is a staggering figure for a country with a small jungle* of 21 cargo and proves beyond doubt just how successful online dating has become.

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      Traffic even break for some of the vast exist from sites in America and Australia another time the past two years evidence that married people contemplate to cheat online is on the supplement. Hocus-pocus on the internet has effect big cash for dating site owners, so not infrequently so that a Canadian belongings position has been set up catering nothing but for cheating men and women. 20% of visitors to the single-women website are looking for discreet casual happenings. Statistic lacking the Albury Futz around Centre of Australian Sexual Behavior suggests that 20% of men, and 10% of women consider had an jungle*.

       Does the internet set stage us by dint of an option whatever come around fleshy background through the medium of others too easy. And what demand of divorce can be attributed to online affairs? Dr Ethan Watson from the Australian Sexual Behavior Try Centre adds "Operative record services can have an a ddictive effect on certain personalities and is a portion as to why we are seeing an increase in online extramarital happenings as internet register grows in popularity this is also resulting in an enlargement in people living double lives and the internet can be held squarely to blame for this surge and we have the statistics divide as a certain"

Online dating is there to be used or abused and spattering would argue that it is bringing the saying 'tempting fate' to another level..

He Wants Kids, I'm Too Young - Dating Question

Chloe asks: "I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 31. He's ready to start a family with me, but I feel like I'm too young to even start thinking about having kids. I'm flattered that he wants me as the mother of his children but the thought scares me too. He's the only guy I've ever dated, and I really care about him a lot. How do I tell him I'm not ready for kids without him breaking up with me over it?"...

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He Wants an Open Relationship Dating Question

Lindsay asks, "My guy and I have been dating over a year. We've had our rocky times and our good ones, but all in all its been pretty amazing. Recently however I found out he was meeting other women on dating sites and even kissed one of them. When I asked him what was going on, he said that he felt he wasn't wired for monogamy. He didn't want to hurt me, so he was relieved that it was all out in the open. He asked if I would consider an open relationship, where we both date other people but still stay together. He says he cares for me very much, and how he feels isn't a reflection on me. He also said he doesn't want to lose me, but he was scared I'd reject him for who he is.

I'm hurt that he lied to me, and I'm confused about my role. Isn't this moving backwards to a casual relationship? I really care about this man, but I'm so confused. Help?"

Well Lindsay, there are two ways to look at your situation. You can either consider your guy's request for an open relationship (learning more about what it means, and whether or not its something you can do) or you can say its not something for you and go your separate ways. Of course, that's easier said than done after a year or more of dating.

Let me first say that an open relationship is very different than polyamory. I realize that you haven't mentioned this in your question, but bear with me for a second. Polyamory is the concept that we can love more than one person romantically, and at the same time. In my experience, most polyamorous relationships are open and everyone is aware of the other loves or partners, and there is a feeling of inclusiveness. Open relationships on the other hand can be polyamorous, but I find the term usually refers to more of a 'don't ask, don't tell' sort of policy, where both parties date other people with the other's knowledge. Open relationships are just that - open - so each person can really do as they please without having to answer to anyone else.

Now, that's just my interpretation. Surely other readers will chime in and share their thoughts. But what I will say is that in my experience, polyamory is focused on love and affection, whereas open relationships are more come what may type experiences. I've also found that folks in poly relationships seem to communicate at a much higher level with their partners (out of necessity) whereas people in open relationships don't seem to share as much with regards to the status of where things are with other folks.

The reason why I'm sharing this information with you is because I want you to know you have more than just two choices: leave or stay. You can also negotiate with your partner to redefine what you have so that the relationship works for both of you. I can't tell if you're open to this type of situation, and frankly, it's a difficult road for even the most stable of relationships. But it is an option, and one worth discussing when things have cooled down a bit.

For now, I'd suggest thinking about whether or not your guy's actions are something you can forgive - or at the very least understand. I'm not condoning his behavior, because I don't believe that lying is ever an answer. But I do believe that his actions have opened up a level of communication and honesty that the two of you probably haven't shared before, and it might be an opportunity for growth for both of you. And since you wouldn't be asking the question if you weren't considering (even a little bit) his proposal, I have to assume you're willing to negotiate. So with that in mind, I'd recommend first discussing with him the dishonesty aspect, and seeing if its a long term issue or a one-off event. Then I'd move into what you both see an open relationship as, what you need out of it, what can be negotiated and what are deal breakers.

I'd also recommend that you speak with a counselor about your feelings, independently of your partner, and take some time to look at what you need from a partner, and whether or not your guy can, or is willing to give that to you. Finally, I'd take some time to nurture and be gentle with yourself, and give yourself some space and time to think without too much pressure from anyone.

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