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Understanding what a woman is looking for in a man is the first secret to seducing a woman. For many men, the concept of how to seduce a woman is simply a mystery. It’s understandable, though. Men and women differ in so many ways that it’s difficult for many of us to really grasp how to get inside the mind of the opposite sex.
The true key to seducing a woman isn’t a mere laundry list to check off, step by step. It’s more a guidebook on the path you must follow to completely seduce a woman, mind, body and soul. And believe it or not, what really gets a woman going is much simpler than you may have ever imagined.
Understanding the differences between the sexes will help give you a better foundation on which to build your knowledge of women. Once you can get inside her mind, it’s all downhill from there.
Communication is ultimately the most important aspect in seducing a woman. Like so many other aspects of our lives, effective communication is the key to success. You want to take the time to really get to know her and what she’s looking for. This will benefit you greatly when it comes to pleasing her, so don’t think that getting to know your woman is a pointless, grueling task of learning a bunch of useless information.
Patience when seducing your woman is equally important, too. Being in a hurry will only prove to damage any good you could’ve done by learning anything at all about your woman. When it comes to seducing a woman, take it slow. We want a man to take his time, not just rush in for the brass ring. A woman wants to know that you aren’t just playing her for sex. And the best way to prove yourself is to take your time.
All in all, women want to feel special. Being romantic makes us feel special. So if you want to seduce your woman you have to be romantic. It proves that you care, that you want to please her and that you know how to treat a woman right. Romance will take you a long way in seducing a woman.
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Women's reproductive health is currently in great danger in Texas.
If the GOP gets their way with their anti-abortion bill, they will force 37 of the Texas' 42 clinics to shut down. While Wendy Davis blocked this massive abortion bill, Governor Perry called another special session to eliminate most of the providers. In addition to shutting down clinics, GOP leaders are preventing any possibility of sex education, because it gets young people "hot and bothered," and they plan to eliminate government funding for contraception. With such restrictive measures, experts say the second-most populous state is doomed with a major baby boom.
More from YourTango: 11 Easy Ways To Boost Your Sex Life TonightThe state's health commission is projecting a drastic rise in pregnancies, predicting 24,000 extra unplanned births in the next two years.
With all those unplanned births, it will cost taxpayers $273 million in Medicaid costs.
Read the full article at The Daily Beast: Texas Is Facing Down A Boom In Unwanted Pregnancies
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The Childless-by-Choice TabooMy Battle With AnorexiaDear Abby For Down UnderIt can be painful when female friendships end — but at the same time, if the relationship has become stressful or frustrating, it can also feel like a relief. We know that when one door closes another opens, and it's important to stay focused on quality gal pals who are positive-minded while bringing out your best.
When you're truly interested in quality friends, you probably won't have 30 of them, so it's natural that as we mature, friends fade into the past. A study by NBC News shows most people have only two true friends. That might seem like a small number until we consider who we really trust with our innermost feelings. If you have more than two quality girlfriends, that's great. If you have fewer than two meaningful friendships, don't worry: there are ways to cultivate more.
More from YourTango: Why 'Single Time' Between Relationships Is ImportantSocial media like Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, and Pinterest can be great places to develop surface-level, online friends. In fact, it has been my source for meeting some of my very best girlfriends, who I treasure with all my heart. Just as you can use an online dating site to meet a great guy for a couple of dates or meet the one that develops into a real relationship or even marriage, you can meet like-minded, quality female friends online as well.
Sometimes, you can upgrade your current friendships. Over time and with effort, a casual friend or concert, movie or hiking buddy can turn into someone with whom you share your innermost thoughts. Think about your friends and consider working toward a deeper bond with one or more of them. Trust your gut feeling: being confident in yourself and your values will help you attract the right kind of friend. (If you'd like to learn more about tapping into that inner sense of self, you can read this article).
Over the course of my own friendships, I've realized that when they end it doesn't mean one person is better than the other, but rather, we were simply moving in different life directions. That's not to say friends must have the same goals in life, but sometimes people are so different that communication and simultaneous personal growth are a challenge. That's when it's time to let go. Since it can be quite painful to lose a friend, this is very important to recognize.
More from YourTango: Why You Shouldn't Ditch Your Friends For A GuyAs we grow and mature, we need different support systems in our lives. One particular friend may be a perfect fit for three years, after which you may want to move on to someone who can take you further in your new direction. Another friend could be a great fit for 30 years or longer! If you're both growing in the same direction, enjoy the stability and camaraderie that comes with solid, long-term female friendships. Keep reading...
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A New Twist On The 80/20 Rule For RelationshipsWhy Men Are More Distant Than Women In RelationshipsThe Best Love Advice On YourTango Find an expert near you! 12nextSure, you rely on your old beauty standbys to be, well, old beauty standbys. But did you know that those faithful products can actually be used in more ways than one? Here, our top beauty two-fers.
The product: Hand lotion
Traditional use: To soften and hydrate parched skin, not just on hands, but on elbows, cuticles, and forearms, too.
Unexpected use: Frizz-fighter. Forget expensive serums and softeners — to beat frizz on dry hair, simply smooth a bit of lotion over the fuzzy area. Instantly, the moisturizers in the lotion will smooth out frizz, leaving behind high shine.
The product: Lip balm
Traditional use: To soothe chapped, cracked lips, and to provide a soft base over which to apply lipstick.
Unexpected uses: Skin calmer and cuticle cream. Smooth balm (straight from the tube!) over cracked, scaly skin — think around your nose when you have a cold, on cheeks before going out into the cold and wind, and over small patches of scaly eczema. Or sweep over dry, flaky cuticles to soften them.
The product: Perfume
Traditional use: To scent your skin and clothes.
Unexpected use: Hair freshener. Put a few drops of perfume in a bottle with distilled water. Shake bottle and spritz onto hair to revive and freshen after a night out or day at the office. Or, for a stronger freshening effect, spray perfume directly onto a brush, then gently brush through locks.
Read more tips over at LHJ.com: Unexpected Uses For Your Favorite Beauty Products
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When you're in a long-term relationship, a hot night with your partner is probably made up of moves pulled from a go-to list of yeses and, if you're lucky, oh yeses. Why risk messing up the mood with potentially awkward antics? Because there's such a thing as feeling too comfortable. "Shaking things up a bit can add excitement and spontaneity," warns Ellen Barnard, a sex educator and owner of A Woman's Touch, a Madison, Wisconsin–based sexuality and education center. The key words there: "a bit."
Experts agree that you don't need to try (or buy) anything extreme to achieve a big boost in novelty and pleasure. Test one or more of these moves out tonight and see for yourself.
Engage In Afterplay
Done with the main event? Now's the perfect time to return to some foreplay favorites, says sex educator Emily Nagoski. "Because you're already aroused, you may find that certain moves can feel extra-intense," she explains. Not only that, but if you've always been curious but shy to try something new, like, say a type of toy, after intercourse can be a great time to engage because when you're already aroused, and may be less inhibited. Plus, there's no pressure on the trick to actually work. You're just having fun for fun's sake.
Open The Windows — But Close The Curtains
The feel of the breeze on your bare skin and the ever-so-slight possibility that the neighbors might hear your moans can be incredibly arousing, says Harlan Cohen, author of Getting Naked. Or, if you're feeling even more daring, instigate a makeout session in your backyard as it gets dark. Even though it's remote, the fear you could get caught produces an adrenaline rush that adds a layer of excitement and urgency to the encounter.
Scratch His Head
The scalp contains tons of nerve endings — that's why that mini-scalp massage at the salon always feels so good. Even though the touch is G-rated, the skin-on-skin contact can trigger a flow of bonding hormones like oxytocin that can make you both feel more connected, explains Ian Kerner, PhD, author of She Comes First. And because the act isn't automatically linked to sex, it can pave the way for a long evening of back-and-forth foreplay before the main event, which often gets lost in long-term relationships.
Read the rest of the tips over at Prevention: 11 Sex Tips You'll Actually Try
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14 Days to Better SexHow to Be A Better Lover8 All-Natural Sex Products We LoveIt's been a few weeks since the defeat of DOMA and since Prop 8 became history. The day those rulings came down, our household celebrated by dancing and attending a celebratory rally. That's right, the whole family — my partner, my 18- and 14-year-old daughters and myself. Now hold off on thinking that we forced them to go to the rally. In fact, this is what our family life is like. Two guys! Two teen girls! All out and proud and being a modern family! Yet, I would be remiss and dishonest if I said I knew this was how it was always going to be.
Back in September 2001, just four days after 9/11, if anyone had told me that some guy would sweep me off my feet, wrap my daughters in a warm embrace and that we would become a family, I would have spit out my extra-dirty Martini all over them. Yet that's exactly what happened (the family stuff, not the martini), and the kids (our daughters) are all right. Of course it took a lot of time and patience from my partner, my ex-wife and myself to make this party of five work.
More from YourTango: Beyond DOMA, Prop 8, Oh My...Am I The Marrying Type!Some media outlets will lead you to believe that children raised by gay parents will be defected in some way. On the contrary, kids raised in same-sex households are perfectly normal — however "normal" is defined for kids these days! With divorce rates skyrocketing and marriage success at an all-time low, I have to ask how a child raised in a same-sex household has any less of a chance of coming out on top than a kid raised by a heterosexual couple? As long as there are active, participating parents in their lives, they've got a great chance of turning out well. Can I get an "Amen"?
The truth is — at least from my experience with my daughters — that having two dads and a mom has been much better for them than some other possible scenarios, for example: a dead-beat dad or mom who says, "I can't deal with parenthood!" and leaves. Of course, not all heterosexual parents are losers who walk away from the responsibilities of child rearing, just as not all gay parents are irresponsible or set poor examples.
However, I don't know a parent who wouldn't say, if they were being totally honest, "This parenthood stuff is awful sometimes!" So how did I make it not awful as a parent, let alone as a newly-openly-gay parent, and ensure that my 9-month-old and 4.5-year-old turn out to be well-adjusted young ladies in society? I worked my butt off, respected my ex-wife and made room for my partner to become part of the parenthood trio. Of course, I also made sure that my daughters never felt undue pressure to support their gay dad unless they felt compelled to.
More from YourTango: Ding Dong DOMA And Prop 8 Are Dead!I know it may sound crazy to say, but I gave them the choice to love me as a gay dad even at that young age. In fact, I think I gave them more choices than most kids get who are the product of a heterosexual divorce. I don't believe I forced anything down their throats or brain-washed them. I was just honest and forthright in a manner that they could understand. Keep reading...
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Accepting Bisexuality: Attraction Across Gender Lines7 Sex Positions Men Love4 Common Gay Sex Myths Debunked! Want more expert advice? 12nextHave you noticed that your dating life has changed recently? Are you continually disappointed and find your expectations are never met?
Warning: You may have a case of Bachelorette-itus. You know, where you watch so much of The Bachelorette that you loose sight of what dating in the real world is really about.
Read on to discover how the show has duped us all with their true love and right reasons bull.
If a single girl walks into a room of 25 single guys, they're all going to want to date her:
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An interesting post in the dating forum by contactable asks: "Has anyone tried group dating like the ones they have in Japan, gokon it's called? Where someone brings their single friends to meet with other single friend and his/her friends? If you have tried it, did you think it is better than one - one dating? What was your experience like?"
I wasn't familiar with the term gokon until contactable asked, but I've definitely done the group dating thing: murder mystery parties, singles dinner parties, blind dates, single volunteers, singles social clubs, you name it. I've also suggested group dating to several clients and readers, with some surprising successes.
Have you ever tried gokan, or any other form of group dating? What did you enjoy about it? Would you recommend it? Why or why not?
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Long distance relationships seem to be a theme among my closest and dearest: my sister's husband is a military man, a good friend has a movie producer for a partner, and my Dad was a truck driver.
In each of these relationships, both partners have struggled (at times) to keep the love alive. It's difficult to stay connected sometimes to someone who lives mere minutes away, much less a partner who is stationed overseas or works remotely. Yet people in long distance relationships do it every single day. Some even manage to have "dates" together, which I find admirable.
Have you been in a long distance relationship? How have you managed to keep the love alive?
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Chloe asks: "I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 31. He's ready to start a family with me, but I feel like I'm too young to even start thinking about having kids. I'm flattered that he wants me as the mother of his children but the thought scares me too. He's the only guy I've ever dated, and I really care about him a lot. How do I tell him I'm not ready for kids without him breaking up with me over it?"...
Women have Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider's The Rules, with dating rules are clearly spelled out explaining what a woman can do to net herself a marriage-minded man. Men, on the other hand, have The Game by Neil Strauss, a tell-all tome about pickup artists and how any man can have the woman of his dreams.
Personally, I found both of these takes on dating mildly offensive. Of course there are rules when it comes to dating and relating, and those who follow them have a higher-than-average chance of succeeding (depending on your definition of success). But do we need to buy into stereotypes to find someone?
This is why I think there need to be new dating rules put into place for all singles to agree to, no matter what their sexual orientation, dating strategy or long-term goals. Dating is dating, and it behooves us all to abide by some simple yet straightforward rules, don't you think?
I've already come up with dating rules to meet someone new, and am working on dating rules that are more general in nature - but would love your opinion. Tell me: what you think the rules of dating should be?
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A reader recently asked, "I've been single for a while now, have joined quite a few free dating sites, and I either get matches by people from the states (I live in Ontario, Canada) or from guys that are not in my age range. Or not even anything I would like. Or on the other hand, if I send a message to somebody, they don't reply back. What am I doing wrong?"
I think there are four main reasons why this lady has not received any responses to her dating profile that she finds acceptable, and have answered them in great detail already. (see: Why Am I Not Getting Any Responses To My Dating Profile?) Do you think I've missed any, or have further ideas and suggestions?
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cptrainer1 asks: I met this guy on the bus. We both were riding it to work each day for months, and one day he decided to finally talk to me. He got my number, and invited me to see his band play. He then called me a number of times after just to talk. I was not sure if he saw me as a friend or a potential mate. He stopped calling 2 weeks ago.
I'm not sure why, and we never had an official date or sexual contact. He tried to invite himself over to my house twice, but each time I was busy or he was busy. The last time we talked he had me watch a movie he suggested.
Anyway, he told me to call him after the movie was over, to tell him what I thought, so I did. He did not answer or call back. Then almost a week later I called again, and he did not answer or call back. He also got his car fixed so he does not take the bus to work anymore - but he did let me know that ahead of time. Why did he stop calling?
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